After years of patience and consistency....I have realized it boils down to this....whatever happens....you have to face the music whenever nature calls.

My personal experience has not been a smooth sail...well...no one's has. But you do have different experiences to talk about. Every story is not written in black....some stories are carved in stone.

Let's not get into this dilemma where you know your partner can swim the entire sea to get this done....doesn't happen during storm...it's only the sad part of the game.

But our society (although mature) is still not open to face the truth. Maybe they would consider some buy back option from the almighty so that they can change the past...but nevertheless...it's not the case in this real world.

My story was never smooth (as I realized when it all began) but, I am holding on....it's true when you dedicate yourself to someone...you gotta..

My prospective(sorry about the word here) father-in-law...is adamant not to get acquainted with ME...Nope. He would like to suffer the pain he is going through with all challenges he is facing at the moment, but when someone offers for a helping hand....GET LOST.

My consideration with her family has always been about the simple fact that they will be the one I will have to look out for. But when the time comes to share some more insights on this...people show signs of backing down, which is not only a hurting gesture...but doesn't give much room to breathe easily.

And then the tension rises...and so on for this life....Nevertheless....I still believe people are not ready to take these situations practically, which is something to look out for....

Remember some of the famous battles are fought over this matter....now, we have to keep the sword down & embrace the reality...

If someone has to do this....it has to be each and every one of us....I am facing the music anyways....(but the smell of victory now would be the most beautiful moment to look out for).

Intercaste relationships have been successful and will be....since our decision to be with the other person is not based on money, caste, religion, their market value, or any other external factors......we are together because we LOVE...

And yes...it didn't begin by analysing the weight of the other person's pocket, it began with attraction....affection & satisfaction that you are the one for me...

So....a humble request for all you parents out there....please consider the person's traits & understanding towards your child before taking a decision. Make sure the caste or religion does not become the deciding factor. Cause ultimately you would want your child to be happy, safe & sound for the rest of his or her life.

We know that you have bread us till date to become mature enough to take on this world....well then why can't we do what you have taught us?? We are taking this decision based on the level of maturity you have given us...the understanding we learned from this world, which is exactly what you wanted us to do....rather I should say...you designed us to take on this world in a better way....

They understand this world in a better way....TRUE....but hey, isn't it our life we are talking about?? Then, let us take it in our hands & be responsible for our destinies.....

At least it is better than playing poker with your choices......(Well...maybe)

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